Your Twin Pregnancy Guide and more…
Whether you just found out that you are pregnant with twins or you are a mother of twin teenagers, this is the place for you.
Raising twins is rewarding and challenging at the same time.
I was shocked with my second pregnancy when the ultrasound technician told us that we were going to have twins. The closest twins that I have had in my family were great uncles and great great aunts whom I had never met.
However, after the initial shock wore off, I was happy, excited, worried, restless, everything you can imagine. I also did a lot of research to find out all I could about having twins, from preconception to the later years.
I also remember what the nurse told me after my twin babies were born. She said having twins is not twice the work than having a baby but rather four times, and yes she was right.
It would be nice to have a place that mothers can support each other, exchange ideas or tips, find out lovely online bargains or just have fun.
This site was created to give tips and support to mothers of twins, and fathers as well! …
In order to provide you with a more updated site I had to change platforms and as a result had to let go of some of the wonderful comments I had received over the last few years. I am still trying to see if I can bring some back but seems it will be long hours of work. Meanwhile please enjoy the site and if you find any glitches let me know.
My name is Lisa and I found out I am having twins. I am not going to lie it scares the heck out of me because I am A- blood type and the daddy is O+. we have been in and out of hospitals and doctor offices. The doctors keep telling me I am at risk for misscarriage. I have already miscarried once so the pain is still there. I would like to carry the twins to full term but, with me being at 11 weeks now and I keep getn sick and throwing up, loosing weight the doctors said they will be amazed if I dont lose the twins. How can someone say that to a mother or anyone? I worry about everything now because I dont want to loose either one of the babies. I want to be able to hold them in my arms and see their cute little noses and toes and hands. Something that is so percious.
Lisa – I don’t know why they are being so negative about your pregnancy. I have a negative blood type and my hubby has a positive blood type. They gave me a shot and are monitoring my pregnancy. I am 23 weeks along with B/G twins – they are right on schedule and doing perfect. Keep hope that your babies will be fine. You are already close to being past the scary 1st trimester!
Lisa stay positive! I am 36 weeks pregnant with our twin boys, I am also A- and daddy is O+, we have not had any issues with this and already have delivered three healthy boys, 8, 6 and 3 years old! You should receive a rhogam shot around 28 weeks and again after delivery because of your neg blood type. The best advice I had with our twin pregnancy is nutrition, eat well and eat a lot, they recommend 400 to 600 extra calories with twin pregnancies. Do your best through the nausea and take care of yourself, the rest is out of your control.
Lisa I honestly think u need to change your doctors bc I wouldn’t want anyone that negative to be caring for me or my babies. Stay positive and take it easy and ur babies will b just fine. Drs. Kill me acting like they are God.
I am 12 weeks pregnant and have been going crazy thinking its twins. My mother had twins at age 29 and it was her fourth pregnancy. This is my fourth pregnancy and I will be 29 when I have this/these babies. Every pregnancy, labor, and delivery, even my recovery has mirrored my moms history exactly. I know that is not enough to be sure I’m having twins, its just a lot of coincidence. But, I also gained a lot of weight due to back surgery and then a pregnancy so my bmi was fluctuating between 29 and 31 before I got pregnant. I know those things increase my chances of twins but I can not find anyplace that tells me how much. I have been having dreams about having twins since before I found out I was pregnant. I even was refering to the baby or babies as “them” and “they” when talking about the pregnancy without even thinking about it. I had to work to stop myself. I still do it if I’m not careful. I have myself so confused now because I tried to talk myself out of thinking it was twins because I didn’t want to feel disapointed if it was only one baby. The only thing that makes me think it might be one is the fact that other than being hungry CONSTANTLY and being worn out this is the easiest pregnancy I have ever had. I talk to my mom about it and she says her pregnancy wasnt any worse with her twin boys than it was with any of her single pregnancies with us three girls. I go Monday for my first big ob appointment. So far I have no clue how my bloodwork is or how I measure or anything. It is driving me insane. Does anyone have any idea how I might be able to tell what I’m in for? I also have been feeling movement for 2 weeks but it seems a little high. My husband says I’m crazy but this isnt my first rodeo and I know what I have been feeling. Not strong, just enough that someone who has experienced it a few times before would recognize it. Any ideas?
I have a 2 year old and now found out I am having twins. Could anyone suggest what strollers would be best for my situation?
7months and really scared!! I have a two year old at home. Any advise for me?? I could really use some right about now
Hi Amanda,
Do not worry so much. What is it that really scares you? All you need is some support from friends and family. At the beginning stages twins are not as hard. It is hard because you are feeding 2 babies and lack of sleep can affect people. If you get your husband to do some feeding and let you get some rest, you will be fine. You can get them sleep through the night with the advice of your pediatrician once they have gained enough weight.
geez..I mighy just b a big worry wart, but i hqd a early still birth at 16 weeks before. I hqve 3 living children also. i found out about 3 weeks ago im pregnant with twins! i am now 9 weeks along. i saw both heartbeats and the doctor said everything looked normal so far. im just worried about..what iif i lose one of the babies..will i know? will there def b bleeding and/or cramping? please help n any way ppossible. good or bad news. i like to b prepared for anything..thanks
Tekeisha,
Its natural to worry about any pregnancy all pregnant mums go through it whether it be a singleton or twins. Sorry about your miscarriage but just take very good care of yourself because pregnancy with twins can take so much out of you. Positive thinking really helps. Get rid
of your negative thoughts and don’t worry about things until they happen. I saw my daughter through her pregnancy with twins and all was fine. There are more good news stories than bad. Worrying wont help!!!! Twins are hard work, there is no denying it but you can get help via your health visitor there are volunteers that will come and help you after the birth. Hope all goes well because watching twins developing is absolutely amazing.
Linda
I am 17 weeks along in my twin pregnancy. I have 3 boys, ages 7, 4 and 2. I find myself really tired, even if I sleep in and get a good amount of sleep at night. My husband is really good with getting up with our 2 year old at night, he’s been waking up for different reasons, and letting me sleep but I find that no matter how well I eat, how much sleep I get and how much exercise I get, I still am just tired all the time. I try and keep myself somewhat busy so I don’t just sit around and feel tired but come the end of the day, I am just exhausted. I am taking iron pills every other day but don’t know if those are really helping. Can anyone give me some suggestions? Thanks!
Am 22 weeks twin pregnancy,just found out having twins last week,am real confused right now,neither my ex who is responsible for this doesn’t want to hear anything from me especially concerning this pregnancy and his responsibilities,nor my family wants because they are very ashamed of me, having pregnancy before marriage,I don’t know how can I take this anymore!
I have been married almost 16 years and we have a wonderful 14 year old son. I just found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant with twins. Needless to say, I was completely shocked by the pregnancy and then to add on to it that it will be multiples, well, I think we are still in denial at this point. My husband and I are excited but I am also terrified. I am a stay at home mom but I question myself on whether I am going to be able to handle the babies by myself during the day, I wonder when I am going to sleep, and I feel overwhelmed that we have absolutely no baby supplies. I guess I am still in a little shock. Any advice would be helpful!!!
Leanne,
Congratulations!!! I do understand the shock. But do not worry so much. The hard sleepless period is very short and you will manage. There are tips on the site on how to deal with that.
You do need some help and support. So don’t be shy to ask for help when it is needed. As for baby supplies you basically need 2+ of everything. You can view the tabs under Twin baby needs as well.
Let us know of any questions. Your pregnancy is at very beginning stages and the most important thing you can do right now is take care of yourself and have regular Dr’s appointments.
My boys are 16 months old! It is a lot of work but worth every second!!! Enjoy EVERY minute of it!
I am 20 weeks pregnant with twin boys. We have been trying for 3.5 years & lost our first baby 1.5 years ago. We are super excited & have wonderful doctors, thank god!! Any advice I need from moms of twins?
Hi am also pregnant with twins I am 31 due in June I am scared but I do have a good support team so hopefully I will be fine. I am worried about the labor and I am scared but I am praying everything will be ok
I’m 31 weeks pregnant with twin girls, and i’m having a mix of emotions about labor and delivery. This is my second pregnancy, I have an 11yr old son, that is worried the girls are going to take over, before he cried out for siblings, i guess the excitment has changed his emotions also. Im mostly always sleepy, tired, and drained for energy. Unlike, my first pregnancy i really don’t have any specific cravings for big food, like burgers, fries or the meal deals, my cravings is something like Crushed Ice, (sonic). I would like some help in kinda determining what to really expect from delivery?? Some would say,” OH its no different.” Maybey its just me..
I have a 2 year old son. Any suggestions on what type of stroller would be suitable for my 3 kids under three? Twins are due in Oct.
I am 21 weeks pregnant and my husband and I went in for our 20 week ultrasound this past week to find out if we were having a boy or a girl…imagine our surprise when we saw TWO HEADS!!! Yup, they missed it on the 1st ultrasound so we had no clue until this week. Trying to cope with the idea of adding 2 more boys to the 2 we already have
So definitely feeling overwhelmed…plus trying to gather up the things we need and trying to fend off the worry about having them early since we are already more than half way thru the pregnancy!!!! Any advice would be MORE than appreciated!!!!!!
Hi Heather,
Do not worry so much. You have made it so far without any issues which is great. Not all twins are born early… you should see your care giver more often to monitor your pregnancy progress carefully. This will give you some assurance as well.
You are an experienced mom, so you need to double up on everything and get tons of help at the beginning.
There are lots of tips on the site on how to cope with your pregnancy and with your babies.
Let us know if you have any questions.
Take care and welcome to mother of twins.